frustrated love...

Hey chikas,
Well i guess the best advice i could give is make a move!
75% of guys would rather you make the first move. And just how we get butterflies so do they its fine be bold! flirt a little...guys love it!flirting is a great way to get to know someone and understand their personality. just don't go too far to quickly and lead him on! it's all about body language...find an excuse to keep the conversation going and interesting (a game off 21 questions about you or would you rather or never have i ever).DO NOT i repeat DO NOT let the conversation get dry and boring or he will think your boring and try to avoid you.A simple hey what's up is usually a good way to start a conversation then just pack the conversation with questions! guys think we only like to talk and not to listen to whats happening in there lives. ask what they are interested in maybe your into that sort of thing to.
BEST WAY TO GET ON HIS GOOD SIDE:
sports
television shows
video games
Show you know something about these topics or ask him to explain certain things to you. and who his favorite player and team is. he can talk for hours! if you know nothing about sports and video games the internet is always a good source of info...fake it til you make it! look up the quater back of his favorite team and keep the conversation going based on his teams stats! Television shows are a great topic and sometimes you might find something you will like to watch with him!
If you don't know him at all...heres what you do its called the bump and flatter... you "accidentally" bump into him (not while he has a drink in his hand) and then say something like im sorry imma total clutz around cute guys! he will be totally flattered and if he is diggin you he will keep the conversation going.
another tactic is the "accidentally on purpose" you text him soo what are you going to do the weekend after he responds you say sorry that was ment for someone else but say if hes interested he can go with you somewhere!
Don't get clinggy and over excited it makes you look desperate... which isn't what we are going for we want it to seem like you have your options open and he's not number one. flirt tip use your eyes! you can enchant him and have him totally hooked all in the way you look at him! the final flirt tip is to use "the voice" that im so interested in what your saying and your soooo funny voice...keep your tone even and throw in giggles whenever he says something funny and excuse to flash him a smile is a good thing. Use other languages like french and spanish to be mysterious. he'll go nuts wondering what you were saying and never forgetting how you said it. even if you don't speak that language there is always google translate and rosetta stone!
these are the only things you need to do to keep him interested...just keep him guessing stay on the mysterious side! guys are used to being able to figure girls out give him the different personalities of you. the flirt the dork the nerd the mysterious one the sporty girl, party chic etc...
another way to keep it mysterious is to change up your style once in a while wear something no one will dare wearing! bring back old fashions and try out new ones like a tie, arm socks, or paint your nails really cool and funky so it will catch his eye and he will have to comment!
thats all for now for bye gurls...
xoxo
-loveguru